Choosing your Maid/Matron of Honor and Best Man can be difficult especially if you have several people that are close to you. It can be anyone, so don?t rule anyone out. It could be a parent, close brother or sister, longtime friend or cousin.Choosing your Maid/Matron of Honor and Best Man can be difficult especially if you have several people that are close to you. It can be anyone, so don?t rule anyone out. It could be a parent, close brother or sister, longtime friend or cousin.Remember what their roles are suppose to be at your event, as you narrow your list.Roles and Responsibilities of the Maid/Matron of Honor:Provide moral support and advice as the wedding day approachesPrecedes the Bride walking down the aisleHelps with planning the bridal shower(s)Usually plans the Bachelorette party and sometimes hostsOrganizes the rest of the bridesmaids, (insuring times, schedule etc)Arranges Brides train and bustles as necessarySigns the wedd acai powder ing marriage certificate at the ceremonyHolds Brides bouquet during parts of the ceremonyHelps out with planning the wedding and/or reception and its activitiesHold and Carry the ring for the GroomAny other additional duties assigned by the BrideRoles & Responsibilities of the Best ManStays with Best Man right before the wedding ceremonyUsually gives the first toast at the reception (order is not as important)Plans and hosts the bachelor partyHelps Groom organize Tuxedo pick up and final fittingReturns Tuxedo?s from the Groomsmen following receptionSigns wedding certificate following ceremonyHold and carry the ring for the BrideHelps out with other arrangements assigned by the GroomEvery couple is different, you may assign other tasks to your attendants or bridal party. There is no specific list of the exact things each one does. This list is designed to give you a basis and idea of what the traditional roles and responsibilities are.